was just in deep thoughts the other day.. and i realise how fragile relationships can be.. whether is it between family members both physical and spiritual.. best of friends..boy girl friends..even husbands and wives..
Relationships with such strong bonds and ties at one stage of the life can just be broken within a split second.. the worrds and actions.. However many times..relationships are strained due to misunderstandings between people.. such thoughts just make me feel sad.. what a pity it is to let a misuderstanding ruin the relationship you share with the other party.. whatmore if the person is someone whom you were once really close to.. Perhaps what all of us need is just a little bit more of understanding and tolerance towards one another.. and really putting our pride aside to come into reconciliation with the other party..
through the many services i attended in church.. i really realise the importance of reconciliation.. indeed God is a God of reconciliation.. and reconciliation comes with love.. and if we really love..there will be reconciliation.. that's part of the understanding of love...
I believe that when conflicts or misunderstandings surfaced between both parties.. both sides are at fault.. Similarly, it also takes both sides to come into agreement of a reconciliation.. being angry and closed up and pushing the blame around and running away from the conflicts doesnt help solve problems.. in fact it worsen things ..causing both parties to be miserable...
truthfully im a person who really treasures relationships with every one around me.. and misunderstandings between myself and another party that are unsolved are like capable of killing me.. ahah... times and things changes..friends come and go.. i agree.. However..i believe that it is our part to maintain the relationships that we share with each other.. I dont believe in changing friendships..lost friendships with the passing of time if both parties takes the efforts to maintain it.. if we really treasure the relationships that we share..we will go all out to keep it going.. and i wanna keep all my relationships with the people around me going..
ALso..i wanna take this chance..to apologise to all my friends out here.. Those whom I may have hurt..i may have offended.. I wanna apologise... Really sorry.. And given a chance..and if you are willing... I would like to reconcile with you.. Im willing to step out of my comfort zone..to putting my pride aside.. to clear whatver misunderstandings and build this friendship with you again.. However..it takes 2 hands to clap.. Im willing..how about you?? I would love..whoever you are..back as my friend once again..
Last but not least.. I also wanna take this chance to thank a few special frens..who have always been so nice and tolerating..bringing much joy and comfort into my life.. I thank God for all these people.. And i look forward to seeing our friendships to a whole new level.. Michelle Lee----my long term buddy!!! ahahhaa..thank you for tolerating all my nonsense and always being there to listen to me and sharing things with me..You are really a God given friend..someone who's always there to support and run with in my walk with the Lord..Thank you friend.. =D Valerie---woman!! ahahah...ur favourite word..lol..thanks for always being so gay..lol..altho i wudnt wan to be known as a les out there on the street..thanks for all the rubbish and constant encouragements..ur pretty postcards..our constant emails and ur companion for lunch..thank you so much..and yea..i wanna say dont worry..i will always be ur fren..ahahha..=D Tiying---another woman!!! ahahha..thanks so much for being so gay too..ahaha..with all ur rubbish and acting..ahahah...really enjoy being out with you..seeing you do stupid things.. oopsss..ahahha..and yea thanks for the many encouragements and being so sweet to send me anE-card immediately when you heard that im down,,thank you sooo much..I will always be ur fren too..ahahaha And to both tiying and valerie...for the first time..i wanna sayy i love you guys woman(man)!!!!hahahahahahha!!! Daphne---hey..im so glad that you are back in Singapore..thanks for always being there and all the sharings we had..let's meet up more..and awww i really miss those time spent with you in school..and yea..i really wanna thank you for all the prayers you made in the past..sowing into my life..without ur prayers..i may not be where i am..doing wad im doing today.. E432--also wanna thank all in E432..though we've been through a lot..many ups and downs..and being in the midst of transitions..I really still wanna thank God for all of you..thank you for holding on..and let's continue to hold on..let's not give up..but let's hang on tight to one another..bonded..and to God..working towards a breakthrough..we allplay a part..=D i love you guys for who you are.. =D
